Sister

I have a very relaxed sister..she is the 2nd one in the family and she is the elder among the 2 sisters.

Let's call her Euniz since that's her favourite (i think she feeling ang moh but what she didnt realise was her heritage is of Negeri Sembilan (dad's side) and the royal Baweanese (mom's side) is incomparable to any ang mohs.

This sister of mine, will contact me usually when she needs something (Sorry dear its a fact). Her last sms or email to me was regards to a kate spade bag which i have to admit is gorgeously looking but certainly not the price. I think you can afford it when you are working.

Anyway back to the story, she sms me on Friday i think - with regards to something that happen to her.

Now i know some of you NYP girls do check out my blog once in a while and I am glad some of you keeps coming back hungering for more or just being a visitor - whichever, i dont really mind as long as you keep your opinion to yourselves and if you wish to get yourself heard, kindly email me.

So Euniz was in an elevator with a group of girls obviously belonging to one faction. Let's say Euniz is alone with a pack of girls.

One of them wears a hijab, just like her.

As the lift stops at her level, out of courtesy Euniz, apologised and excused herself. She said so because the other Hijab girl is in front of her blocking her access to the floor.
This is a basic courtesy of every well bred girls belonging to a good natured family (yes we are all well bred..the corruptions comes later when we reached school)

(U can say Euniz is pretty well bred but she develop horns when i tell her to - faced with disloyal friends, corrupted minds and cheating boyfriends...)

So guess what this hijab girl did? She repeated every single word Euniz just say to her loudly in the lift.

A form of bitching? Apparently Euniz didnt want to let her get away with it. She told me she hold the lift and started screaming at the other hijab girl.

Well, usually i try to steer a very ferocious bitch because i know what is like to know one (well it did takes one to know one and yes..dun mess with me unless you're tired of living)

I applaud Euniz for holding the lift but I dont really like screaming.

You see - Euniz was born in the year of the tiger and usually dogs are afraid of bigger animals dont they therefore, she need not really screamed...coz in this world to express yourself in that manner means lacks civility.

I remember an incident many years ago that happens to me and all i did was I hold the lift..much to the delight of the other users - i refused to budge until the bi-a-tch concern, apologise.

Now that's more civil isnt it..you be a bitch and yet be civilised about it? haha i dont know some of you might have a different opinion.

Oh did i tell you where it happen? Somewhere in the CBD. so you can imagine the growling tummies that were cursing the lady who was whispering nonsensicals about me to her colleague..

It was one of the little victories that is still fresh in my mind.

Therefore dear Sister, let me teach you a few tricks or two..

Never scream - coz it shows you are angry
Be cool - show your temper without getting agitated
Insist you are right - therefore if there are further follow up cases, no one will say you did anything wrong.

trust me, you will never go wrong here..since you are a tiger anyway..we are all wary of you (hey wait i am a rooster!)

As for the hijab girl who did that, apparently she did it out of something that she aint happy about. I guess if you decide to lodge a complaint, do go ahead but tell the truth, tell them that you repeated what my sister said loud and clear in the elevator and you get screamed at for that. :)

The Hijab is a very important garment for Muslim Ladies. Not only it identifies them but it also means the one wearing it is aware of ALL the obligations and rules regarding it. This does not mean OPPRESSION Against woman.

Once a hijab is worn, a woman is free to move about without attracting the opposide sex attention as she is not showing her hair, her body or any other part accept HER FACE and HER PALM.

She does not arouse men and she kept sexual predators away because when she wears it, she wears it not because her parents told her to...it is because Allah demands it of her and she wears in the name of Allah, and as a a result will then she be respected and loved. All around her will feel ease with her because she is not alone but she is with Allah all the time.

Therefore when you wear the hijab, be sure to guard your civility, your temperament and your mind because people judge by the way you behave and therefore it is important to ensure that they do not misjudge you.

Sorry sister..just want to have a good topic up and i think yours seems to set me on fire since i heard of it.