Guilty

We are all guilty.

Guilty for earning too much and not donating to the poor.

Guilty for spending too much time at work and less time with the family.

Guilty for smiling and fawn licking our bosses but not a smile to the poor.

Guilty for not teaching the right values to our children.

Guilty for not giving to society what society has given us before.

Guilty for letting our life ruled by money and not we ruled the money.

Guilty to Allah SWT for we are not doing it in moderation but in excess.

we are all destitute..we do not appreciate things that matter in our life ..intolerance is our emotion, our wealth is our measurement..our face is more important than our heart..when will it end?


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Polls!

Hi Ladies and Gentlemen,

I am having a bit of headache and I purposely did this poll to attract attention.

I would also want to know if any of you had any experience with any of the caterers/make up artist stated in the poll.

I welcome feedbacks, suggestions, pricings etc.... :) Please advise me ok?

I would be happy to read every single one of them.

Love ya

Edz

Poll!

I m gorgeous and you are just jealous!

Thank you to all my friends who took the poll...thank you..

anyway this poll is just a feedback for me. It basically means..i m still presentable that's all :)

新年快樂

Assalamualaikum,

I am not sure if it is the right characters, but my intention is to wish all my chinese friends
Happy New Year.

May the year of the Tiger, brings more wealth, better health and strength to face the year.

Thank you Acknowledgement.

A Big Thank You to Mr Liew Yong Kian for helping me to do up the blog banner - EdzOnline.

Finally i got a blog banner ! YAY!

If i were to sing..which song will i sing

Lately, I have been singing 3 songs. Why? In anticipation of a wedding in the works. I do hope i can get to sing these songs live.

What and by Whom? Read on:




This will be the first song because of the lyrics. I love the lyrics and the last lyric can make me tear.

This will be the second song because Datin Seri Hajjah Siti Nurhaliza sings it better than the original male singer (No offence intended)

This song certainly brought back memories but i will sing because i love Anuar Zain and some people have said i look like him (no offence but take a closer look when you meet me next time :P )

There you go, 3 songs in my list for a wedding that is still in the dreams.

Marriage or Uni or Career ?

As you all know ( i didnt really mention) but from piccies that i put up now and then, i have 2 younger sisters and 1 younger brother.

The sister after me - Euniz will be graduating from polytechnic in a few months' time. I feel so happy for her. 

We all know she is going out with a certain someone and if things turn out well, she may get hitched for life. 

However, as I have always emphasis her the need for an education, she has been babbling about on entering university. 

She is not that smart but better than me i suppose. She wanted to go either to SIM or MDIS where she can take part time. I am up for it but it will take a while to save up. Bank loans are out of the question though. 

She finishes classes in Feb 2010 and i told her not to start work first. She has already applied to be a relief teacher first though - even though i verbally disagree but in my heart i was full of pride :)

The reason is because very simple, i rather she concentrate on learning how to be a good wife - cook,sew,plan the budget etc. For wedding, my parents have decided to pay for the food etc while i help my sister to pay for the Mak Andam cost. I am ok with it lah.

Which brother dont love her sister u tell me?

So with all these events taking place, she dont know which to choose.

My solution to her is simple. Her husband to be has reached the age that he has to get married. He is her senior by 7 years i think and older than me by 1 (but he still has to call me Abang eh) 

Get married, have kids if you want to but that means putting career or Uni on hold OR

Get married, hold the idea of having kids and go and establish career and study part time. 

There is only 2 but she has a 3rd option - go Uni and Start career but hold marriage. I told her if she choose the 3rd option, she might as well tell the hubby to be to find someone else. 

It is very unlikely he will wait for her.

I am so hoping she will have the 1st..i want a baby...been a while i carry kids on my lap! 

i tell you my future nieces and nephews will be very pampered by me..this is confirm and guaranteed. 

haiz...time pass so well...the prospect of her being cared by someone else after the nikah bring tears to my eyes sometimes but Allah will care for her and hopefully she is given the best and solution to all her wants. Insya Allah. 

Commentary

My sister made a remark that my blog is too dead. No one wants to listen on sermons and religion matters. No one will care on my views and no one really bother if the world will exist tomorrow.

She said i should turn my blog into something that people would want to visit and i should make money out of it. 

The very reason i started blogging was because i felt that there should be some place where i am free to say something and hopefully someone can rebutt me and teach me something new. That was my purpose.

To learn and know something so deep that I may not have thought of in the first place.

Having said that and listening to her, i decided to give it a try. Yours Truly aint really born or fed with a silver spoon and I am just hoping that I will die with enough money for the next generation - erm not my direct descendant as I am still single. 

I updated my blog list and i may intend to change my banner and my colour scheme. But then this colour is my favourite ! i cant believe she says its dull.

I removed music for i find it quite irritating to hear music while i read. 

However i intend to talk about politics soon. Something to do with the malay community as well. 

Perhaps I should. It's sort of a wake up call. 

Another Malay Leaked Video

I was facebooking (pardon the term) the other day when i notice an ex-school mate of mine was uttering some nonsense about some girl.

I was taken aback and wanted to ask but thought it was best to leave it alone in case it might be his personal thing (he is married no kids)

Fast forward today, The NewPaper talks about a certain Suria Actress whose sex video was leaked out thru facebook.

It was done by another actress as well who claims her account is hacked.

I was thinking...and i link up about what my friend said and bingo..he was referring to the former.

Now, i am not being personal but more to being rational (dealing with it rationally)

1. As a muslim, we know that both men and women unmarried cannot have sex.

2. However, we are in Singapore where such rules is non-existent ( it is not Islamic Law)

3. As a fellow muslim, Singaporean and part of the Malay Community, I strongly believe that AS a muslim, we should not even see the video. It is pertaining to a woman who is being exposed. Males should not see it.

4. We should not criticise - think of her parents, her relatives. Just delete it. That will stop it from circulating. We should stop it.

5. We are not perfect muslim and therefore OUR reaction must be something rational. That we must show her as a Muslim, what is the way forward. In return we hope she gets the message.

6. Even if she does not appreciate what we do or suggest to do, let it be as long as we know as Muslims we have done our part.

7. Even if she claims that video is not her, it is ok..we can still delete it because we still cannot watch it...

8. Believe me, it is better to delete it than watch it.

9. Even if you hate her, always think of her parents.

10. Just score more points with God...alright?