Fauzi Rassull - an opinion.

I am not going to condemn him neither I am going to applaud him.

Each individual has their right to lead their lives. We should not judge but just leave him to be.

Amazingly, there are countless people out there who seems to have so much free time hurling abuse, quoting or taking context from the Quran on how he should lead his life.

Guys! This is Singapore.

There is this Malay lady (i hope she is a muslim)who commented on his make up, his dressing, his ladies shoes etc..From the nick of it and her comment sounds muslim to me.

I was thinking, speak for yourself first. Educate your own gender first.

Question: Do all Malay Muslim ladies in Singapore dorn the compulsory Hijab?

Question: Do they avoid from wearing clothes that shows the shape of the bosom and the shape of their body?

For full clarification of what is required of the aurat for Muslim Ladies please refer to Surah An'Nur Verse 31

'And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and be modest, and to display of their adornment only that which is apparent, and to draw their veils over their bosoms, and not to reveal their adornment save to their own husbands or fathers or husbands' fathers, or their sons or their husbands' sons, or their brothers or their brothers' sons or sisters' sons, or their women, or their slaves, or male attendants who lack vigour, or children who know naught of women's nakedness. And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. And turn unto Allah together, O believers, in order that ye may succeed'

If you are not blind, please read line 2 ... draw their veils over their bosoms which means You cover your head, to show your face right down to your bosoms (dada/breast).

Bukan pakai ketat ketat atau singkat singkat nampak bentuk badan and pakai tudung ye.

Shapes wise also count.

Please, be nice to others. You dont impose your belief on others lest others question you of the compulsory act you require.

True each individual has to advise another if they make mistakes as a practising muslims. but imagine the burden of a father/brother and all male siblings because of the ladies who dont wear their hijab? that has not include other issues such as their behaviour etc.

There are many other social issues at stake - from unwanted pregnancy to HIV etc.. the poor who needs help...the elderly... these are issues that no one wants to speak about.

Fauzi Rassull went ahead to talk about it.

I am no angel but i sincerely believe we should be professional enough to maintain a certain standard when we post our comment. At least be courteous. Accord him the courtesy when a guest comes to your place.

Accord him the courtesy as the owner of the blog.

Dont do things to others that you dont want others to do to you.

Fauzi Rassull may mean nothing to you but he is after all someone's child, someone's sibling, someone's relative.

Dont demean him to such extend of calling him a fag, gay etc.

What happens if any of your siblings/family members happens to behave exactly like him? How do you broach the subject? I am very sure you will be disappointed but you wont say such things to their face like how you did to Fauzi Rassull right?

I am sure Fauzi Rassull has his reasons for doing it.

Eventually, there will come a time everyone will start reflecting on their lives - and move on from there and I sincerely believe people change over time.

Dont make it any worse.

Give him a break!